BE TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF




YOU MUST TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. YOU CANNOT CHANGE THE CIRCUMSTANCE, THE SEASONS, OR THE WIND, BUT YOU CAN CHANGE YOURSELF.JIM ROHN.






One of the most common thinking today is that we are entitled to a great life – that somehow, somewhere someone (certainly not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness, exciting career options, nurturing family time and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist. The only person responsible for the great life you desire is YOU.  To be successful, you have to take full responsibility for of everything you experience in life. This includes your relationships, income, debts, health, physical fitness, the result you produce and your feelings. Everybody wants to blame someone, parents, bosses, friends, he media, co-workers, clients, spouse, weather, the economy, our lack of money or anything we can blame we don’t look at the real problems which is ourselves.
Stop looking outside yourself for your mistakes, you are solely responsible if the life that you want to lead and the results you want are not coming forth. You are the only want who created or allowed the results in your life presently. If you are not getting results, look inwards and not the outside forces. Taking full responsibility of your life means, you acknowledge that you create everything that happens to you, that is whatever experience you are having now, is YOU.
STOP THE EXCUSES AND BLAMING EVERYONE. You have to give up on why you can’t and why you haven’t up till now. Acknowledge the fact that you have always had the power to make the difference. Make a choice not to blame anybody from now on or to give excuses. Be fully responsible. According to Dr. Robert Resnic, Event + Response = Outcome (E+R =O).Every outcome you see is as a result of your response to the event that has occurred in your life earlier on. For every reason why it is not  possible, there are hundreds of people who faced the same circumstances  and succeeded. If you don’t like your outcomes, change your responses. Everything you experience today is the result of choices you have made in the past.

You have control over three things in your life, the thoughts you think, the image you visualize and the actions you take (Your behaviour). If you don’t like what you are producing and experiencing, you have to change your responses. So change negative thoughts to positive ones. Change your habits, what you read, and your friends, change how your talk. If you keep on doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you’ve always got. You will never be successful as long ass you continue to blame someone or something else for lack of success.
You are the one who didn’t say NO
You are the one who ate the junk food
You are the one who took the job
You are the ne who choose to believe them.
You want something good take the risk to get it. Don’t ignore the alerts. When you see some unpleasant situations, address it immediately. Pay any price to get to where you are going. Learn to replace complaining with making request and taking actions that will achieve you desired outcome.




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